One of the questions we get asked most often is:
“What do you actually eat?”
The short answer? A lot more than people think!
We love good food as much as those lactose lovers, however, just need to be a little bit more strategic with our choices.
When I was diagnosed with lactose intolerance over 30 years ago, the options were pretty limited. Today, grocery stores are packed with lactose-free and dairy-free alternatives that make life so much easier.
That said, not everything is worth buying.
Some products have earned permanent spots in our kitchen, while others only got one chance before being banished forever.
Below are the lactose-free products our family actually buys again and again...
- Our Family’s Lactose-Free Staples
- Best Lactose-Free Milk
- Best Dairy-free Milk
- Best Lactose-Free Ice Cream
- Best Lactose-Free Cheese & Dairy Alternatives
- Grab and Go Snacks
- Easy Meal Shortcuts
- Chocolate Worth Buying
Our Family’s Lactose-Free Staples
If you opened our pantry right now, you’d almost always find:
- Black Beans
- Rice (regular and those 90 second microwave bowls)
- Canned Chicken (Pro-Tip: Canned chicken is a life-saver for parents on the go)
- Eggs
- Peanut butter
- Sandwich meats
- Proteins (red meat, fish, chicken)
- Hummus
- Mayo
- Tortillas
- Wheat Bread or Sourdough
- Fresh Fruit
- Fresh Vegetables
- Mixed Nuts
- Grab and Go Almonds, pistachios, beef jerky
- Protein Bars
- Lactaid Pills
- Assorted Chips
In fact, if Logan had her way, she’d probably survive on black beans, chicken, and rice forever, which I can’t really complain about, she is a pretty good eater. Below we have narrowed it down to some of our favorite selections from our most frequented stores: Costco, Vons, Target, Walmart and Trader Joes. I have included links directly to some of the products so that you can see where they are sold in your area!
Best Lactose-Free Milk
Lactose-Free Milk is real milk that has lactase added to it to help us “lac-toes” digest it easier. Although you still won’t find my sensitive stomach gulping an ice cold glass of leche alone, I will use it in almost everything else, like cereal and cooking.

Perfect for:
- Cereal
- Baking
- Smoothies
- Pancakes / Waffles
#1- KIRKLAND 2% LACTOSE-FREE MILK

Kirkland’s Lactose free milk has been our go-to milk for years. You can’t beat the price when you get (3) Half-gallons in one pack! Unlike many dairy alternatives, it tastes almost identical to regular milk because it is real milk! The lactose has simply been broken down. Even my real dairy-loving son shares the same milk because he doesn’t notice the difference. I could even go fat-free, but these active kiddos need the extra calories whenever I can get them in.
Buy it at: Costco
#2 – LACTAID 2% MILK

We LOVE that Lactaid has a wide distribution, so you can (finally) find it in most local grocery stores as well as Target and Walmart. We also love that they offer options from Fat-Free, 1%, 2% and even whole varieties.
Buy it at: Your Local Grocery Stores, Vons, Target, Walmart
Best dairy-free Milk
Dairy-Free milk means that there is absolutely no dairy, which means 0 lactose for us! These milks are usually derived from nuts, plants or soy. Many people think they are lacking, but some, like almond milk, actually pack more calcium than the real thing. If you are looking for that creamy texture, cashew and oatmilk are usually the ones to grab.

Almond milk is loaded with calcium, which is perfect for both these peri-menopause and pubescent bones not need it?! Naturally it is the most used in our smoothies and overnight oats.
Buy it at: Costco
#1 – SILK CASHEW MILK

Almond milk is loaded with calcium, which is perfect for both these peri-menopause and pubescent bones not need it?! Naturally it is the most used in our smoothies and overnight oats.
Buy it at: Costco
#2 – KIRKLAND ORGANIC UNSWEETENED ALMOND MILK

Almond milk is loaded with calcium, which is perfect for both these peri-menopause and pubescent bones not need it?! Naturally it is the most used in our smoothies and overnight oats.
Buy it at: Costco
#3 – PLANET OAT OATMILK

Of course, we have to include oat milk for its creamy goodness. However, my hips don’t lie if I have too much of this one, so we use it as more of a treat to give my coffee some richness or when making homemade ice cream!
Buy it at: Vons, Target
Best Lactose-Free Ice Cream
This is the category Logan takes VERY seriously. Needless to say, we have tried many, many types of dairy free and lactose free ice-cream. I will most likely have a post on ice-cream alone – that’s how serious we take it in this home! For the sake of brevity, we will list a few of our top picks here today. And if anyone ever wants to send us samples- we are very, very open to trying new products!

We may not agree on top flavors, but we do agree on top brand! BEN & JERRY’S takes the cherry with all of their dairy free ice cream flavors. This is one of the only brands we have found that tastes like the real deal without the stomach ache. With many dairy free, vegan, gluten free and kosher options, you can’t help but scream for ice-cream from Ben & Jerry.
PRO-TIP: The Ben & Jerry’s packaging to the regular dairy flavors is VERY similar, so keep an eye out for the green caps that note they are dairy free.

⭐#1 – Logan’s Favorite
The marshmallow swirls and chocolate fish make this one feel like a real treat, not a substitute.
Buy it at: Vons / Target

⭐#1 – Mom’s Favorite
Ben & Jerry’s – AMERICONE DREAM
I have to scoop this into a separate bowl, so I don’t eat the whole container at once! The mix of fudge covered crunchy cone pieces and caramel swirl is just too good.
Buy it at: Vons / Target

#2 – SO Delicious – SALTED CARAMEL CLUSTER
If you’ve ever wondered whether dairy-free ice cream can actually be good, this is your answer. This salty, sweet yumminess has both mom and daughter fighting for the pint.
Buy it at: Vons / Target
PRO-TIP: Look for Non-dairy ice cream that has a CASHEW base! We think that they usually yield the creamiest, flavors that don’t seem to upset our stomachs like some others.

#3 – LACTAID ICE CREAM
Honorable Mention and Longtime Favorite…For those who want traditional dairy ice cream without the lactose, Lactaid’s ice cream is hard to beat. They have a wide variety of flavors, and the half-gallon size is great for the whole fam (Lactose-intolerant and lactose lovers alike) to share.
Best Lactose-Free Cheese & Dairy Alternatives
This is probably one of the most important categories because it seems to be the hardest one for the industry to get right! That’s right, I said it. There are SO many horrible non-dairy cheeses out there, you are sometimes better off just going without it than throwing on some chalky, lab-created product that ruins your whole meal.
Let’s be honest, cheese is everywhere; pizzas, sandwiches, salads, snacks, burritos, pastas….everywhere. It is hard to find a good recipe to make non-dairy when you don’t have the right products to use. So we have put together a list of some of our favorites and hope they help you navigate the cooking world a little easier.
⭐#1 – GREEN VALLEY LACTOSE-FREE CREAM CHEESE
Buy it at: Vons
This is one of the best and closest lactose-free cream cheese alternatives we’ve found. Unfortunately, we don’t think anyone has really nailed the non-dairy cream cheese world, but this lactose-free version seems to be as good as it gets. However, there is one BIG caveat.

Although it is marked “lactose-free” Logan and I would argue that you should take your level of intolerance into consideration, because too much of a good thing, usually is just that… This product may still have you keeling over with digestive pain if you have too much or too often. We would encourage Green Valley to bump up their lactase in this one. That said, we both have pretty severely low tolerance levels. So enjoy, but use sparingly!
MOZZARELLA, CHEDDAR AND PARMESAN CHEESES
Trader Joe’s takes the cheese in this category! All three of our top cheeses come from Trader Joe’s making it a one stop shop for this category.

- Parmesan Cheese Alternative (Lactose Free)
- Mozzarella Style Shreds (Vegan)
- Shredded Spicy Mexican Style Blend (Lactose Free)
- Perfect for: Pizza, nachos, tacos, enchiladas
Buy it at: All found at Trader Joes!
Since we can’t just buy non-dairy pizza anywhere, our family makes a lot of pizza. We have tried many cheeses and doughs to try and get as close to the real thing as possible. We have found that if one brand nails the flavor, it just doesn’t melt right. And if another company gets the melt, the flavor is horrible.
That is until Trader Joes entered the chat with their VEGAN mozzerella style cheese!
This baby not only tastes great, but melts great as well! And no surprise to us – it is made from our favorite nut- cashews!
Even better is to sprinkle a bit of the Trader Joe’s parmesan alternative with the mozz for an even more delicious pizza topper that will leave you saying “Bellisimo!” (Keep an eye out for our Best Pizza recipe coming soon.)
We are a Mexican family, so items like quesadillas, taquitos and nachos are after-school staples in this home.
But how do you cook those without cheese? Well, you can, and we have. But sometimes you just need something closer to the real-deal, and that is when we turn to Trader Joe’s Mexican Style Non-Dairy Cheese!
GRAB AND GO SNACKS WE ALWAYS KEEP AROUND



Whether we are racing to school, soccer, football, practice or are at a tournament all day, we are always looking for easy food to grab and go. Here are just a few of the items that seem to be staples in our home that help us survive the rush.
PROTEIN-ISH
- Archer Beef Jerky Minis
- Z-Bars
- Mezcala Protein Bars
- Dino Nuggets
- Beef or Chicken Taquitos
- Chicken patties
DIPS / SAUCES
- Hummus cups
- Chick-fil-a Sauce
- Japanese Barbecue Sauce
- Peanut Butter
- Guaca-mole cups
- TOOM garlic dip
CHIPS
- Trader Joes Chili & Lime tortilla chips
- Ruffles
- Chex Mix
- Fritos
- Original Sun Chips
SWEETER TREATS
- Dole Whip
- Acai
- Pure Organic Fruit Bars
- Oreos
- UNREAL coconut chocolate
PRO-TIP: Mix unreal dark chocolate peanut gems with mixed nuts for homemade, lactose-free trail mix! The kiddos love it.
Easy Meal Shortcuts
I didn’t say healthy, so don’t come for me…but these are those “you need to stuff something in their body ASAP,” quick lunches and dinners, because let’s be honest—nobody wants to cook every meal from scratch. Add a can of black beans and a veggie and your an A-ok mom in my book!

⭐ KID FAVE: DINO NUGGETS
Buy them at: Costco
Careful, not all nuggets are created equal. In fact, MOST nuggets have dairy mixed into the breading. But lucky for us, these dino nuggets are a win for kids in the lactose-free world.
⭐ MOM FAVE: STICKY WHITE RICE BOWLS
Buy them at: Costco / Vons
90 seconds to a side dish? yes please. Pop one of these in the microwave and add to the side of any dish to get something into those carb-burning bellies.
⭐ MOM FAVE: CANNED CHICKEN
Buy them at: Costco / Vons / Local Grocery Store
I’m not going to lie, at first the thought of canned chicken kind of grossed me out. Now it is a breakfast, lunch and dinner staple. There are 100 ways to use it. Mix with scrambled eggs and you have yourself a breakfast burrito. Toss with mayo for a chicken salad sandwich. But the easiest is just to throw this on the stove to cook it up a little more, toss on some salt, pepper and garlic seasoning and its perfect with black beans and that microwave rice. Top it with some avocado for something fresh!
⭐ KID FAVE: GOODLES, VEGAN IS BELIEV’N
buy them at: Target / Vons / Walmart
Mac ‘n cheese is a hard one to get right when it is lactose free, but this one is one of the best ones we have tried, and it gets bonus points for not being filled with junk that makes us feel like a slug after eating it. We use margarine instead of butter and Lactaid milk to help get as close to the real deal as possible.
Chocolate Worth Buying
These are a few of our favorite sweet treats because they actually taste delicious—not health food pretending to be candy, but the actual good stuff. We won’t rate these, since they fall in different categories. But we think they are all worth a try.

⭐ NON-DAIRY CHOCOLATE CHIPS
Buy it at: Vons / Target
These are great for baking or adding to pancakes!
Buy it at: Vons / Target
This is slowly becoming one of our favorite brands! These cookies are ready to bake and great to have on hand. I send these pre-cooked with Logan to birthday parties so she doesn’t feel left out of the party.
⭐ UNREAL CANDY PRODUCTS
Buy it at: Costco / Vons / Target
Not all Unreal products are dairy free, but these three are at the top of our list.
⭐ HOLD THE DAIRY MINI CONES
Buy it at: Trader Joes
These vegan sweet treats have a coconut base and are hard to not eat all at once!
Final Thoughts
Lactose-free living has come such a long way.
There are so many more options than ever before, and thankfully, most of them taste significantly better than the products I grew up with.
These are the products we genuinely buy, eat, and keep stocked in our kitchen.
As we discover new favorites, we’ll continue updating this list.
Because if there’s one thing we’ve learned as Lactose sherpas, it’s that finding the good stuff is always worth sharing!
Have you found a product or brand we need to know about? Write us and let us know! we would love to hear from you!
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